JENJE-BARA

When I Was Young, I’ve always known that marriage was for me. My mother always said to me: “Son, find yourself a girl who’s nice and mild who’ll stay at home with my grandchildren. Once you’ve found her, hold her tight and thank your lucky stars at night!” When I was young, I’d dream the day away; I would imagine earnestly my wedding day. But what a fuzzy picture- the guests I could not see nor make out any details of my bride to be. Only my face was clear, and never could I say rightly who it was that stole my heart away- the dream remained that self-same shade of murky. But then, by chance, one day I met you, and since then my dreams have taken shape. My bride’s filled in- her eyes of blue, her hair of black that frames her smiling face. I know now who my dream bride is- it’s you. I love the way you hold my hands- so nice and soft and slow. Your roughened thumbs caress my skin still smooth, and youthful too. But beauty fades, and passion dims; Time weathers every hand. These sweet,...

    Heavy rains remind us of challenges in life... Never ask for a lighter rain.  Just pray for a better umbrella. That is attitude.  Life is not about finding the right person, but creating the right relationship.  It's not how we care in the beginning, but how much we care ‘till the very end.  Some people always throw stones in your path. It depends on you what you make with them - a wall or a bridge? Remember you are the architect of your life.  Search for a beautiful heart, but don't search for a beautiful face. Because beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful. It's not important to hold all the good cards in life. But what is important is how well you play with the cards you hold. Often when we lose all hope and think this is the end, Then the Almighty smiles from above and says "Relax dear" it's just a bend and Not the end.

#1. Clasp hands when you’re crossing a street or walking through a crowd. Wrap your arms around your lover when you’re standing close to each other, and don’t keep more than a feet distance between each other unless you have no choice!  #2. Write little love notes and slip it into your lover’s pocket even if it’s just a little ‘I love you’. These notes don’t have to be elaborate. Even a little lipstick mark on a piece of paper will bring the same smile!  #3. Record a love message on your partner’s phone. Set an alarm for a time when you’re not around them with a message saying “check your recorder app/voice recorder”.   #4. Surprise your partner by taking her out to a nearby favorite picnic spot late in the night while she’s still in her night suit. Spread a blanket on the ground and have an impromptu getaway with champagne and strawberries. Or plan a surprise weekend getaway to a nearby place. #5. Sit on his lap and behave like a mischievous minx when both of yo...